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TaglineWhat do you find helpful in your meditation?
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Closing my eyes from time to time
fredclaymeyer — 14 years ago — in What works for me
I generally meditate with my eyes open, but I often find that closing my eyes for some amount of time seems to settle my practice. It seems a bit like putting a blanket over a bird's cage: the bird quiets down pretty quickly.
It seems most helpful either: 
  • As a break or change of pace in a generally "scattered" or chaotic session.
  • For a few minutes at the beginning of a session, when I remember to do it.
A caution: do not try this when you're very tired. You'll go right out and probably crack your floor...

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Soft Background Music
NEBULABUFF — 7 years ago — in What works for me
     Don't know how many others may do this but I always have some meditation music playing softly in the background.  Some of my favorite musicians of what I (and I'm sure lots of others) call 'Space' music are, Tim Story, Deuter, Brian Eno and Michael Stearns.  Vangelis is great too -  and Kitaro.  Anyway there are a lot of them.
     In addition there is "Music From The Hearts Of Space", a radio program broadcasting from the Bay Area to PBS stations all over the country (check your local station's schedule).  HOS also has a website (I think it's just, hos.com) where you can listen to over a thousand hours of this deeply relaxing music for a monthly fee on a par with the cost of a subscription to Amazon Music.
     Oh, and as long as you keep the volume nicely low, the Medivate Timer Chime will be easily heard over the background music.  Try it.  You'll like it!  Blessings
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Not sitting for a couple days every month or so
fredclaymeyer — 14 years ago — in What works for me
So, this may be bad advice, but I find that I personally sometimes really benefit from taking a couple days off of meditation every month or so.
I don't really plan to do it—it's more like I temporarily exhaust my discipline, which is easier for me to do than I'd like. And there will usually be a period of two days (not more than that) where I don't sit, and get lost in work or time-wasters instead.
I've found a couple of things consistently happen:
1. I start feeling the benefits of the practice quite strongly. I find this bizarre, but it's true. It's almost like the mind I'm cultivating needs a bit of a break from practice before it sinks in fully. The closest analogy I've thought of is that if you'd been training really hard for a marathon, your body might start to feel really good a couple of days after your last training session. I'm sure that analogy's terrible on a bunch of levels, but the experience itself has been pretty consistent for me with meditation.
2. Conversely, I start to get hit really hard with neuroses I don't usually face when I'm meditating regularly. After about two and a half days of not sitting, I'll start to "drift": I notice more and more trouble controlling my emotions (especially fear and irritation) and connecting with what I value and find beautiful in the world. It quickly gets quite terrifying, and I find it really helpful for reminding me just why I meditate.

I'd love to hear thoughts on this. I guess this isn't really advice, just something that I've noticed is helpful, and it's been consistent enough that I thought I'd share it.

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How a guy meditated every day for a year
fredclaymeyer — 14 years ago — in What works for me
Here's a guy who managed to meditate every day for a year through being accountable to a friend and setting a routine.
There's really a lot in here—it also talks about how his attitude and motivation shifted before making the commitment, and the news article (on meditation and the brain) that inspired the shift.

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"How has meditation changed your life?"
fredclaymeyer — 14 years ago — in What works for me
I found a thread by that title on an online forum called Vipassana Forum—here's a link.
I think it's a pretty good question. For me, the first few answers that come to mind are:
  • I'm not as irritable as I would be otherwise. When I don't sit for a few days, I start saying and doing things I really regret.
  • I don't get overwhelmed by fear, generally.
  • I'm much more compassionate and perceptive than I would have been without a meditation practice.
  • Meditation sort of gives my life "context"—not "meaning," but a sense that I know what I'm doing here and how the whole thing works.
I'm sure there's more, but those seemed like the first few answers that came up.

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Making meditation a routine
davidbhayes — 14 years ago — in What works for me
One things that I found really helpful in establishing a regular meditation practice is to make a meditation a part of your daily routines. For me, I shower and brush my teeth together everyday, and have no place to rush off to after doing those things. So adding medititation to the end of that chain of routines fit naturally, and made it so I really couldn't forget (or "forget") to meditate.
If I couldn't do it at the time, at a minimum I was forced to engage with myself about why I wasn't doing it, and make an agreement with myself about when I would be doing it.

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Forcefully minimizing distractions
emmacat — 14 years ago — in What works for me
My cable box for the tv in my room broke, I got it replaced but I wasn't able to set it up. After being put on hold numerous times by my cable provider, I keep putting off trying again. That was two months ago. I found that I really don't want the intrusion of tv in the same room where I have my cushion. When I prepare to meditate at night, I leave my laptop and all my gadgets downstairs. It may seem pretty nitty gritty, but I mostly respond to drastic measures. 
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Retreats!
fredclaymeyer — 14 years ago — in What works for me
I just did a several-day meditation retreat. It was wonderful, and I came out of it completely energized to practice. I would absolutely recommend taking any amount of retreat time you can manage--it's one of the best things you can do for yourself.
I'm back in a fairly stressful situation now, and I can see those stresses gnawing away at my practice. So (for my own benefit and everyone else's) here are a few thoughts on doing a post-retreat correctly:
• When you get out of it, continue to sit twice a day, morning and evening. It's really important to carry forward the practice momentum you've had.
• As a way to keep it a priority in a busy schedule: Notice how you feel during and immediately after a retreat, and think of that as being the result of meditation (which it is!). So, if after the retreat something comes up that threatens to interrupt your practice schedule, ask whether the thing is worth risking the benefits of practice for. Maybe it is, but at least you'll recognize the tradeoff you may be making.
• Don't worry too much about "holding on" to whatever benefits you feel in retreat. Some of these are just temporary excitements that only exist in a retreat environment and are bound to wash away anyway; and the things that really are lasting, valid insights will be difficult to access if you're worried about clinging to (your idea of) them. What you should hold onto is the practice itself.
Hope that's helpful! I better go practice soon...

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Getting inspired by reading
fredclaymeyer — 13 years ago — in What works for me
I struggle regularly with putting off meditation. In general, I'd say turning the feeling that I "should" meditate into actual behavior is an uphill battle.
Recently, I read a bit from a book that's always been a favorite of mine (Illusion's Game, by Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche). As I was reading, I found that I wanted to meditate, because of the author's genius and the sense that it came from a lifetime of practice.
So a recommendation is: if you have a favorite book, just try innocently reading a few paragraphs. As you're reading, if you find that you feel inspired to meditate, go do it before the feeling wears off! I'm going to see how this works for me. I'll try to report back.

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Sila
ananda — 14 years ago — in What works for me
What works for me?
Well, I think sila (= Pali for virtue, i.e. virtue in regard to what you do the whole day) is very important.
It is very good to do good deeds. It gives you contentment which removes restlessness, during your meditation you will tend to feel "there is nothing else to do than to meditate now."
What are good deeds?
There are infinite ways to work on your sila. Here are some examples:
-Be kind to other people
-Work well in your day job
-Help other people
-Move your body much during the day, a hobby in which you move the body a lot helps
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free meditation
sallycinnamon — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Here is a free meditation that allowed me to manifest some pretty cool stuff

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Free Meditation
riazbest1 — 5 years ago — in What works for me
"Hey! I'm new to this group and excited to join! Is anyone having trouble with meditating or manifesting their dreams? I just manifested some pretty amazing things and would love to help"

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What works for me
Christipoo — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Usually what works for me is soaking in a hot tub, with epson salt a few peddles from a rose with a dry rag rolled up behind my head and a hot rag on my face. Listening to guided meditations, like The Star Goddess Oracle 20 min meditational video on youtube for example. I have never felt so free after cutting all those cords that no longer serve me and I didn't even realize I still was holding on to. I have found that towards the end of me doing this I was able to access the fifth dimension. I felt so lifted in my life so in tuned I love it.


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self aware
Venisha1230 — 5 years ago — in What works for me
I like to sit down when my kids are all asleep turn the light off and sit on my cushion with a pink candle and just let my mind slip into a calm feeling
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youtube channel
Eslamelsaid123 — 5 years ago — in What works for me
check this YouTube channel it have calm sounds vidoes  to help you sleep relax and meditation  https://youtu.be/qaMKdNN1HjM

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OMG IT REALLY WORKS
imanifest21 — 5 years ago — in What works for me
omg ive been doing this meditation and its really great things my food truck was rated the best cajun food in houston tx . i was approved for an 200,000 grant my love life is perfect i must share with you guys . Listen i know the struggle .im here to help just like when i was in need of help the universe made away and opened doors

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The Law of Success
Josevee — 5 years ago — in What works for me

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Manifest your dreams just like I did :)
TinaStax — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Hello everyone! I'm so glad to be part of this group. If there's anyone having any problem with finding the right meditation/manifesting techniques that works for you - I have just manifested one of my biggest life goals! And I would like to help you too. Let me know!
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What works for you?
natural-spirit — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Hello! I'm new here and I want to learn more about the meditation community, I'm a Rinzai-Zen Buddhist and I haven't gotten the chance to talk to anyone about their experiences with meditation yet. If anyone has anything helpful to share for a newcomer please link or share with me. Thanks!

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Meditation Music
sarahgh — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Hey everyone! 
I have been meditating for a while now, and I'm really starting to enjoy it. I have been struggling (and I am still struggling a bit) with anxiety issues and panic attacks. When I first learned about meditation, I thought it would be nothing for me, but meditation can really help me get calm.
What really helps for me is listening to the right music and drinking a cup of tea before I start my sessions. 
Now I am dedicated to creating my own meditation music, I even started publishing my work. If you're curious about my work, you can listen to it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dfj-LRUias&t=1297s. Please let me know what you think, I am passoinate to create more in the future. 
Lots of love, 
Sarah
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Introduction
SomtoKpajie — 4 years ago — in What works for me
Hello everyone, I'm Emma and I am excited to be part of this journey.
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Great Meditation practice
bobo12 — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Hey everyone, how are you'll doing? I just wanna say I'm new to this sight but I have been meditating for quite a while I just haven't gotten around join a community so this is great first step for me. I just wanna know what got everyone into meditating and why you do it now? For me it had to be the powerful message from this https://tinyurl.com/6rdmnbhm and the product they have it's been a great help for me and my wife. Have been using it for awhile now and wanted to know if there's more out there that'll help. I've also been very much into this e-book https://tinyurl.com/tzwf2h that's all about self improvement and I've just been finding it helpful.
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Meditation Help
Quareece_4 — 5 years ago — in What works for me

Hey my name is Zade I would like to know any premeditated techniques you are using or if u are having any problems with it I’m here to help or any problems any relations to meditation I related to something cool and I’m here to help you

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medivate care
faqihrosdi — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Hey you guys,
My name is amy
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Introduction
Jammj227 — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Hey guys im new to this group, My name is Jamar Jones, many of my friends Call me Jamm. I am a very Spiritual individual, a minister, a preacher of the Gospel. I just dont study the bible to preach, or study other practices that have been proven to work for my own needs, but for the needs of others in the time of need. I like to provide insight before there is a need, so that when whatever it is boils up or bubbles hey there is a solution. I like to offer what I call a sure thing. Although I may post things to sell on here I am also available , I make myself available to sit and listen to people and to help people to overcome objectives in their lives for them to feel and to know when they have been freed and are at liberty. I can first be contacted at Jamar.Jones2@outlook.com yes send me an email first then other means of contact will be shared

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New to group
ETWRTL — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Hey, my name is Chris and I am glad to join this group/forum. Can anyone share a few links on current meditation that they are using?
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Simple Meditation technique Works for Everyone
iamatlpc — 5 years ago — in What works for me
Does anyone here have any problem relating to meditation ?
Here is a meditation technique that will help you do some pretty cool Stuff!
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Great product!
zubite — 6 years ago — in What works for me
Hey, I'm open to help! Wanted to share free meditation that helped me to manifest some beautiful things!
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Hey ! so proud to be apart of this community
ThomasWilson28 — 6 years ago — in What works for me
Hey! My name is Thomas Wilson. I am glad to be here with
so many passionate members. Could anyone drop any links or tips
on current meditation techniques they are currently using. I am using this
free one, but I want to see what everyone else is using, commit below

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Hey ! so proud to be apart of this community
ThomasWilson28 — 6 years ago — in What works for me
Hey! My name is Thomas Wilson. I am glad to be here with
so many passionate members. Could anyone drop any links or tips
on current meditation techniques they are currently using. I am using this
free one, but I want to see what everyone else is using, commit below

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A new form of zen
Mr40-7 — 6 years ago — in What works for me
Hey guys, I go but the name of Jake. With the start of the year different techniques have been the base of my meditation artillery, but iscovering this new technique blew my mind. If you are interested check it out at: http://smeartha.com/9VIg
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Noticing and relaxing facial tension
fredclaymeyer — 14 years ago — in What works for me
A comment someone made about a recent meditation session reminded me of this: I can really tell a lot about how my mind is by examining the tension in my face, particularly my forehead and eyebrows. (Other people mention the jaw as well, although I wouldn't say I carry any particular tension there.)
Relaxing those areas actually makes me feel better, too; I've found it difficult to be miserable with a calm, relaxed face.
As a sidenote, traditional artwork depicting very advanced meditators tends to draw them with relaxed eyes; and I find that highly awakened people who are actually alive do indeed have those eyes. Here are a few photos--see what you think:
1. Traditional "wisdom eyes" drawing;
2. Buddha statue;
3. Adyashanti (modern spiritual teacher).